Lesson 22: Stop Playing the Victim. So many times we block our growth because we want to play the victim instead of realizing that we are a victor. The enemy doesn't want you to see that you are an overcomer, that you are a winner. He just wants you to focus on what you've lost, that you were hurt, that things didn't go your way. When you realize that even though you had to go through hell, take a few detours, lose a few relationships, be turned down for some opportunities that you thought you were qualified for and that you still made it through and you're still blessed you will stop living in defeat and begin living in victory!